Jessica's Parenting Journal

  I was having my morning coffee when the notification came through: Australia had just banned social media for everyone under 16. World first. Effective immediately. I put down my cup and read it twice.   Whatever you think about government intervention in parenting, this is the biggest children's digital policy story in history — and it didn't stop at Australia's border. Within weeks, Denmark, France, Spain, the UK, Malaysia, Portugal, and several others announced they were developing similar legislation. The global conversation about what social media is doing to our children has shifted permanently. As parents, we need to understand what that means.   Quick Answer: What Is Australia's Social Media Ban? Australia's ban came into force on 10 December 2025. It prohibits children under 16 from holding accounts on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, Threads, Snapchat, YouTube, X, Reddit, Twitch, and Kick. Platforms face fines of up to AU$49.5 mill...

  The day my toddler threw her plate across the kitchen for the third time in a week, I sat on the floor next to the mess and genuinely had no idea what to do next.   If you've hit that wall — the one where nothing seems to work, and you feel like you're either too soft or too harsh — you're not alone. Toddler discipline is one of the most searched topics in parenting, and also one of the most confusing. The advice is everywhere and often contradictory. Here's what the research actually says about what works, what backfires, and how parents around the world approach the same challenge.   Why Toddler Behavior Looks Like Misbehavior (But Isn't) Before we talk about strategies, it helps to understand the toddler brain. Between ages 1 and 3, children are experiencing a surge in independence and self-awareness — they know what they want, but they don't yet have the language, emotional regulation, or impulse control to express or manage it. What looks li...

  I cried in the hospital bathroom at 2 a.m. on Day 3. Not because of the sleep deprivation — though that was brutal — but because my baby wouldn't latch properly and I was convinced I was already failing her.   If you've ever felt that guilt or pressure around feeding your newborn, this post is for you. The breastfeeding vs. formula debate is one of the most emotionally charged topics in parenting — and also one of the most misunderstood. Let's cut through the noise with what the research actually says.   What the Official Guidelines Say The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends exclusive breastfeeding for the first 6 months of a baby's life, followed by continued breastfeeding alongside solid foods through at least the first year. The World Health Organization (WHO) echoes this, recommending breastfeeding continue for up to 2 years or beyond. These guidelines exist for good reasons. Breast milk contains antibodies that protect newborns from infec...

  I used to think I was a pretty consistent parent. Firm when I needed to be, warm when I could be. Then my oldest hit 13 and I started paying closer attention to my patterns — and what I found was uncomfortable. Half the time I was laying down the law with no explanation. The other half I was so tired of conflict that I’d let things slide I knew I shouldn’t. I wasn’t the parent I thought I was. And my relationship with my daughter was showing it.   Why Your Parenting Style Matters More in the Teen Years Most parenting style research has traditionally focused on early childhood. But the stakes are arguably higher during adolescence. The parenting approach you bring to the teen years directly affects: •        How much your teenager confides in you •        Whether they’re more or less likely to engage in risky behaviors •        How they handle conflict, pressure, and failure ...

  A few years ago, a friend called me in tears. Her 16-year-old son had been struggling for months — pulling away from friends, sleeping most of the day, quitting the soccer team he’d played on since he was eight. She’d chalked it up to “teenage laziness.” By the time she realized something more serious was happening, he’d been in crisis for almost a year. “I just didn’t know what I was looking at,” she told me. “I kept thinking he’d snap out of it.”   The Numbers Are Hard to Ignore Nearly 1 in 3 teenagers will experience an anxiety disorder during their teen years. Roughly 1 in 5 will experience a major depressive episode before adulthood. Suicide is currently the second leading cause of death among young people aged 10–34, according to the CDC. These aren’t fringe statistics. They’re happening in ordinary homes, to kids who seem fine on the surface — kids who go to school, have friends, and smile at the dinner table. The challenge for parents is that mental health st...